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I write about the digital media landscape my teenage son, and your students, live in.

Navigating Information Online

Your students can spot a lie. The problem is the two seconds before they share it.

Help your students recognize misinformation in time and act wisely before the share button does the damage.

Your feed has a shape. Most students have never been asked to look at it.

Algorithms shape what students see. This activity helps them examine their feeds, find their blind spots, and test their own assumptions.

Students know their feeds are personalized. But what are they not seeing at all?

Personalized feeds show students what platforms think they want to see. This activity helps them notice what's been filtered out.

The problem is not just fake news. Real news can be framed to push students toward a conclusion too.

Helps students compare headlines, spot framing, and ask better questions about sources and bias.

Conspiracy theories feel satisfying to believe. That's exactly the problem.

Sometimes a student believes something that is false, and ridiculous to you, but they actually believe it. This activity explores why.

Sometimes satire looks like news. Sometimes real news sounds like satire. Students need practice telling the difference.

Satire is not just fake news with jokes. Helps students understand intent, context, source, and what changes when satirical content is shared as if it were real.

Social Media and Digital Life

Online safety works best when students practice it, not just hear about it.

A practical lesson where students audit their own accounts: privacy settings, passwords, 2FA, phishing risks, and digital footprints.

In the attention economy, students are not the customer. Their attention is the product.

Helps students explore how free platforms make money, what app design does to their habits, and what it means to have their attention bought and sold.

Doomscrolling starts with good intentions. That's what makes it hard to stop.

Helps students understand doomscrolling, spot their own triggers, and find the line between staying informed and spiraling.

Supporters call it consequences. Critics call it a pile-on. Both things can be true at once.

Helps students explore cancel culture, accountability, online harassment, proportionality, and what fairness actually requires.

Most parents share out of love. That doesn't mean the child had a say.

Helps students explore sharenting, children's privacy, consent, digital footprints, and the growth of family vlogging.

Attention becomes trust. Trust becomes influence. Influence becomes money.

Helps students explore influencer culture, sponsored content, disclosure, authenticity, and how online trust is built and spent.

Social media asks you to measure your real life against everyone else's highlights. That's not a fair comparison.

Helps students explore FOMO, social comparison, online highlights, and what healthier social media habits actually look like.

Privacy, Identity and the Digital World

Students often think their digital footprint is just what they post. Let's have them see the wider trail they leave behind.

Helps students audit their active and passive digital footprints: from posts and profiles to app permissions, location data, and search history.

Free apps are not really free. Let's help students see what they give away every time they click agree.

Helps students examine what apps collect, translate Terms of Service into plain language, and think through the convenience versus privacy trade-off.

Online anonymity can protect people and it can enable harm. Students need practice thinking through where that line should be.

Helps students explore anonymity, pseudonymity, free speech, accountability, and what changes when someone cannot easily be identified online.

People change. Search results do not always change with them. Students need practice thinking through who gets to decide what stays easy to find.

Helps students weigh privacy, second chances, accountability, and what GDPR's right to erasure actually does and does not cover.

Teachers know that silence can mean a lot. What do students do when speaking up could make them the next target?

Helps students explore cyberbullying, bystander behavior, online harm, social pressure, and what realistic responses actually look like.

Wellbeing and Mental Health

Emotions are information, not instructions. That's the gap worth teaching.

Helps students build emotional vocabulary, understand what emotions are for, and choose regulation strategies that actually work.

The headlines say social media is damaging young people's mental health. Is it that simple?

Helps students explore social media, mental health, screen habits, sleep, comparison, and what the evidence actually says.

The question isn't whether gaming is good or bad. It's whether it's still working for you.

Helps students explore gaming, screen time, healthy use, warning signs, and the design tactics that keep them playing.

Traditional gender roles didn't go away. They became lifestyle content. That's what makes them harder to question.

Helps students examine gender scripts online, from manosphere content to tradwife culture and social media identity.

A student can have hundreds of online connections and still feel like nobody really knows them.

Helps students explore online friendships, loneliness, parasocial relationships, and what real connection actually requires.

Social media didn't invent body image pressure. It made it faster, more constant, and harder to notice.

Helps students explore filters, editing, appearance pressure, and what healthier engagement with body image content looks like.

Young men are struggling, isolated, and angry. The manosphere has an explanation. Most classrooms don't.

What's driving boys toward red-pill content, why banning and contempt don't work, and what educators can realistically do instead.

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